It disgusts me to think that he is going to break so many girls hearts and be the absolute monster that he is to girls in the future and get away with it scotch free. Was still talking to and seeing his ex girlfriend. One of the questions in the list above was about boredom. But because Hare has done most of his research in prisons, sometimes his book seems a little removed from everyday reality. They can kill, you know it in that paralysing moment of fear. After getting the visitation he wanted when I was unable to pay lawyers for 2 years as an unemployed single mother to a toddler , he has never once visited his son — not once in 7 years. He's a zealot, paranoid antigovernment freak who's convinced of a complete government takeover and police state.
He is by all definitions, clinical and otherwise, a sociopath. A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness. I love reading the comments on here almost as much as the blogs. The next day I went to work and when I came home he was gone. They are chameleons and are capable of being anything to anyone, dependent on what the person wants. You did not list one single characteristic about him, his behaviors, or your relationship with him that would cast even an iota of a doubt on what he is.
Is it all typical of a sociopath who feared rejection?? He was very emotionally abusing, and tryed to cut me down. He said, she said stories were told and eventually enough they contributed to his awful behavior. Shoulders falling down like teardrops. Any insight here, stories, examples would be useful. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be and will not be. Learn to respect they are different from you.
There are stories of people diagnosed as sociopaths who did improveto some degree, with the most ceaseless and diligent help. Has a father that has slandered me through Facebook. Just remember that many of the people believing these lies are his current victims. However, that which gives them ability is also their weakness. Trying to continue to reach her about love and compassion without making her easy prey like I was, but I'm afraid she is like her father.
He will say things which will hold you back, or keep you attached to him see above , he has to keep control of you, to have any sense of control over his own life. She has turned my only daughter against me with lies. When I love someone, I feel like I want to inhale them -- to literally suck out their soul. She met him when she was 17. A sociopath is different to this. And her actions are endless! And they have a strong nose for detecting those that are high in empathy and they sense thise of us who have been wounded in the past. No Respect for Your Boundaries, Only Complies With Law Enforcement Sometimes : Predators do not listen to reason.
I then find me door key on the mat but no fob key for the main entrance door — he has always left both before and knows one goes with the other! I had received quite a few comments before I started the comments blog. The closest analog to a sociopath's love is probably the love of a child: intense, accepting, selfish. They have no motivation to pull themselves out of the mud, let alone take blame for anything. I see abuse in everything in everyone, more than my abuser and i know it comes from me being in his head and seeing what he sees. I left him 6 times before that but did not take my furniture or my dear dog so had to go back.
Gary says December 29, 2017 Im a victim. We are not capable of love for anything short of a small length of time. Because some of the same traits and behaviors can be found in both malignant narcissists and sociopaths, it can be difficult to distinguish between the two. I have to free my mind and heart. If you still want your things, then just go get them and let that be the end of it.
I figured out that she was a sociopath by going to ask. So we broke up April 15th and I have yet to get my stuff back from him. I love and care for her very much! I do believe there is a genetic component. He told me he will hurt me if he sees me again. Remember they never have remorse or grow up.