He said ok and was sorry for bothering me. Generally speaking, women want to be with a man who is courageous and masculine enough to stand up and go after his biggest dreams and ambitions in life. Even as a couple, we are still two individuals. Take a hard look at the 5 years with your husband and ask yourself if, when he was not drinking, he treated you well. Let nature take its own course.
Is she attracted to him? That true long term intimacy needed more than what you are teaching. Show her with your actions and your kindness that you have changed and that you lover her. Honestly, this guy is a chode. I feel she needs to give me the chance to be a a good dad and husband. Im really confuse what is our relationship status. But its like am not giving him his space i keep messaging him and he keeps ignoring me. He recently mentioned getting a divorce but still calls me baby and kisses me and says he loves me.
Anyway, its very hard to go through this. He wants to chatter with me all day long. Create a vacuum so that your partner has something to step into. She has been cold, not receptive to love, not receptive to touch. He was cold and angry.
Lisa, Thank you for the Comments on how to handle. Im saying is that at first in the beginning of the relationship there had to be disagreements and misunderstandings. And i gave him the time that he wants, but when i texted him yesterday. My other girlfriend just made the story up and actually she was already porking another man. We have both committed to stay together and work on us and move on. Mary Your story is so similar to mine.
I have been reading and enjoying all your articles. We are both no saints. I have many great ideas to add to your many ideas. Absolutely no fighting and screaming! Fair enough, and be sure to take about it. We have two children, and he has told me many times that we are not compatible. And it was clear from his response that he had been doing some very similar soul searching in the time he spent on his own. And rather than spiraling into our past negative cycle, we were able to create new positive experiences to share.
We were ment to be together. . I have been solely focused on being a mom, putting on weight and becoming short with him most days. I forgave her but she refuses to even consider forgiving me. The mistake then was they forced him back to work just as the company was finishing a brand new plant. She just couldnt handle it.
We met up tonight and I was balling my eyes out and so was she. I feel at times I cannot breathe and most nights cannot even sleep because of her need to be together constantly. But for some reason I am just now understanding that what he wants is to not feel the guilt, not rehash the problems. So I respect him and am giving him his space, but am also just so stressed and depressed of not knowing what will come of it. I only hope I get one more chance to show him how much he is worth to me. I would never allow another girl to that, but this was different.
I cooked, cleaned, worked, took care of the house, did everything. Love yourself enough to be strong enough to let him go. We got along great and then they stopped talking to me. I Was In the bedroom getting ready to go when I stepped out right into my already angry husbands chest. It was longer than that but you get it. Also because no boundaries were agreed I. I started applying the skills Coach Jack taught me and immediately began noticing results, both in connecting better with my wife, and also with others around me.