I want to be loving and available. We have also given her plenty of space by not saying anything at all. That is, if her not doing something for you on Sunday morning is poisoning your whole relationship with her all week, there's some more serious problem. My mother used to be my best friend for most of my life. Try to view the actions that led to this resentment from a different perspective.
Just takes a little love. Right now after a big fight with my mom,I came here to check if its normal to hate my own mother and this post was like words from my heart. I envy others who can open up about anything with their mothers. I think I look pretty great. She apparently is schizophrenic and I feel less abnormal for reading this. I am leaning to give what i was refused: love.
If you put Jesus first, you are going to hate your mum. I registered on this site bc i read a post and someone had mentioned anger is not normal. I am 47 and i don't want to hate anymore. If she is one of those that only hear what they want, then just survive and work hard on getting your own place. But don't hate your mother. She lectures me on what to say to her friends when they speak to me.
My mom has always done everything she can for my three sisters and I, but always so cold and callous and holds things over our heads and backhandedly. I'm trying not to hate my mom. When i was a teenager, I had no respect for her and I still dont. Sometimes letting a family member go is what's best for our own emotional and mental health. My mom is determined to have a granddaughter. They are educated, kind, easy-going and classy.
I've ran away twice but i always seem to be back here. I am currently 30 and unable to escape from her. It's a jungle out there. But none of us love her. I just want to be away from her, not forever but until I figure out why she's so unrelated to the world I want for me. I wish there was an easy way to recover from her. Your mother brought you into this world.
She has threaten to take my kids away because she wants the earned income tax credit at end of the year and tells my daughter that too. But yeah, I'm sure it's normal, a lot of people hate their mothers especially. Hi Dorothy, congrats on getting sober and being willing to make amends. Now go up to your room and your grounded for disrespecting me. It's so hard for me to express how I feel about my mother to most people, as they shrug it off as a joke, or a product of my age I'm 21.
However I think there's more to be said. Like Karen, my siblings also claim to have a better relationship with my mother than I do. Give the woman a break. And there is nothing bad in that, she is in fact you mother. I felt bad about feeling badly. I am also glad I found this site because I can't stand my mother.
To top it off, she has anxiety as well and it just doubles mine. How much do you hate my mother? I am not a failure. Most of the garbage people have in their heads is not from them. Sorry Jen i couldn't protect you that's because your dad did this and that. I regret this young child who really wants to grow in God is being held back by of all things, the childs own Parent.