And her sister doesn't help. But it's important that instead of accusing her of cheating that you explain to her that you are just feeling worried, and that you're not sure why. I told you this story, because it perfectly shows a few different very effective ways to spot lies. Enter at your own risk. It might be worth analysing what it is that makes you feel that way, and if you've confronted her about it, what it is that makes you believe she would be lying to you. Also- her lying about being pregnant- not many girls do that. If there are not, you can start filling your time with positive websites.
I bought 10 pregnancy tests over the course of a month and all were positive. You seem like a reasonable fellow; I'm sure your answer will appear as events continue to unfold. Note that if they are lying, this could be one of those sensitive areas I described in 1. You can't do anything to help her, you've never met. However, I'm also not ruling it out.
So sometimes I just don't tell him the truth. I buy her another pregnancy test so I can this time see the results. I'm not saying that only 'you' can't. That's why I was scared of the fact she's lying to me. Based on all that you have told us, I don't think this girl is even real. Talking to our partner and strengthening the parts that need it can really help with those feelings of uncertainty. His books, articles and personal consultations are here to help you.
You might also think she is cheating if you have been hurt in the past and do not trust her to not cheat. If you do, we will assume you are trying to start a brigade and you will be banned. Part 1 was her story of losing the love of her life. I told her I don't mind where she lived but just wanted her to be honest. She got my name tatted on her while she was cheating.
Anyway we talk about abortion and things and she agrees to this as we know now is not the right time. You might want to wait a while longer for a clear intuitive answer. She is avoiding your judging gaze and that could indicate a problem. She was with another guy, more than likely cheating on me. The is a shadowy figure whose whereabouts and identifying details remain unknown. Speaking to someone who cares can help you to sort out your feelings. With that said, lies do serve a purpose in our relationships: they help bridge so that developing unions have a fighting chance.
Seems to me that there are definitely some insecurities that you are dealing with. Don't fight with her just tell her it is over and you're done speaking with her. Why did she 'remove' the coil so suddenly? I'm definitely treading lightly because I don't want to be wrong and ruin our relationship. Whatever you're getting out of this relationship, it's not worth it. Is this how you want to start off? You can't be scared of confronting a woman.
Or her parents, or anybody. In the meantime check your feelings. I had the same experience. Women understand that a little vocal reinforcement can go a long way. A good way to confirm if she is lying to you is to ask about the same story at another time.
I took a giant leap of faith this year, and it turns out my initial thoughts on people in general were correct. And things started getting messy. I have the impression that the struggle you are having with this girl replays a childhood wound of your own. Dude, you and I both know she can pull photos off the internet and claim there hers. I couldn't have been happier. If I can trust and believe all the things she tells me and I believe she's also loyal why isn't she able to trust me. That's when we found out I wasn't tested, and I went back to get tested specifically for it.
As we all know, not all lies are created equal. Addressing these problems is crucial and they are an obvious sign that something is amiss. She may have been trying to tell you she was pregnant in order to convince you to stop practicing kind of safer sex so she could get pregnant. I watched many friends and acquaintances go down this path. If they seem evasive or are attacking you, then they're lying. And the other guy will leave too.