So when we were talking, I asked a lot of questions. Thank you for being so caring, understanding and concerned about your friend's feelings and his well-being. He's a really, really good friend and I don't want to lose him and he said that he took such a long time to tell me because he wasn't sure how I would react and thought I would go over the top and like cut all ties he said he was researching on the internet how to tell someone you're gay and all the sites said for him to be wary of that but I would never do that to this guy. For a while, I've had the feeling that my friend likes me. You might be best getting some distance from this guy anyway, time to cool off.
My best friend just told me he loves me, but I love my boyfriend! I knew then that if I made him my boyfriend he brought with him a complete future. Stay with him please, let him ask you as many questions as he wants. Email your questions to Your Gay Best Friend at: girlworkonyou aol. Your friend is not making passes at you. I'll be there for you no matter what. You gotta give him hope.
He has started to pay attention to his appearance. As a friend to both of them, you would be doing your friend an injustice by letting her marry a guy that is in love with you. I guess you are going to have to be a little strong and point him in the right direction. He had told you that he loves you, right? He could just be using you as an excuse to leave her because he knows he should propose. But I really do want to emphasize the point that people are people and they will typically like other people.
He recently told me that his marriage has been failing for the past 15 years. All Content Copyright C DearCupid. And once you've thought enough about it, tell either of them how you feel. And, most important, he's not saying anything about how he feels. I knew deep down it would never work because he travels nearly the entire year, but I guess I'm just pissed about how he handled it. He was obviously crushed and it was awkward for like a week.
Commit to keep doing them, and your relationship will automatically grow. I had another friend a girl who I could talk to about my feelings for him as our friendship continued, but I knew nothing would come of it and it was better to have those feelings and an amazing friendship with him, rather than having those feelings and no friendship. If you settle for cheap sex, you will never discover priceless love. He tells you he wants to be more than friends. I honored that, and stepped away. An old friend of mine was coming into town for business so he reached out to me to have dinner. So be open and honest with your feelings, but be prepared for them not to be reciprocated.
It'll hurt, sure, but you guys did it to yourselves. If a friend can toss me aside like that, what's keeping every other guy from doing the same? I don't think we could ever be more than friends. Bad Boy Episode Story I have a huge crush on the Bad Boy at school! The only difference might be that your friend will be more vulnerable to the rejection because he doesn't have anyone to talk to about it it seems like he's closeted. It won't be exactly how it was before, and for a while it may be strained. Just let him know that you don't feel the same way, but you'll always support him and that his sexuality doesn't matter to you. What do you think of these signs that your best friend is falling in love with you? Assure him that it doesn't matter to you, and that you're sorry you can't return his feelings.
I really like the idea of trying to convince him to come out to other people so I guess we have something to talk about next time we chill. Set limits like, if he keeps flirting with you, or alluding to things, or touching you, you need to nip that in the bud. Years and years from now, you'll look back at this and laugh about it together. In the end, you will need to communicate with each other and define what your relationship really is. But I think my best friend is in love with me.
I think either way you are going to be in a pile of you know what. I agree that that is a confusing situation. After the first few days, I figured it was just about sex for him and I was alright with that because I wasn't trying to rush into slapping a relationship label on us, but he started doing things that, if I were just an easy lay, he wouldn't do — things you only do if you care about someone. Yes, you will have to unambiguously reject him. We have to be very careful with relationships with people of the opposite sex, it can be really easy for someone to get a wrong idea in their head.
Ya know, maybe you guys should actually give it a shot. He's getting the opinion from you that there's a better option than his current situation, or at least that what his brain is telling him. The thing is, I know he was still in love with me for a while after that, but he made no further moves and I made sure not lead him on, so it didn't fucking matter. If you do take a break, say why! So, by that rationale you're helping him cheat on his wife in his heart. It's going to be hard joking with him because I'm afraid I might introduce humor in the wrong places and offend him. Love changes you and change is something most of us recoil from.